to go with the flow, or not?

People tend to follow what the majority say. To go with the flow, because they think that it is only right. But how right is right?

If 98% of the world's population tell you to do A, will you do it just because you think that it is only right since everyone is saying the same thing? And even if you think its right, do you really have to do it if it wasnt something you wanna do?

Sounds confusing? Let me elaborate.

For example, if people around tell you that REC is a really good movie that scares the shit out of you, and you should really watch it. It doesnt necessary mean that you need to agree its a good movie. Watch it yourself and make your own judgement, why follow what other people say, or think? I watched it, and i think it sucks, pure boredom and not at all scary. Does that mean im wrong?

Did i confuse you even more? How about another example.

If you're in a relationship that is going no where and everyone tells you to end it. They say the best solution is to end it earlier than to drag on and feel worst. Everyone is saying the same thing, but its something you dont wanna do. Do you really have to do what everyone is telling you? Or do what you feel like doing even if its not totally right? It is your relationship, not theirs. You can listen to what they have to say, but you dont have to action if that is not what you wanna. How wrong is that? What everyone tell you, might not exactly be the best option! The best option is your own decision and opinion, something that wont make you think twice.

I am no longer gonna get psycho-ed by what everyone say. What everyone say might not be right, cos i only believe in what i say or what i wanna do - even if its a mistake. It is my life, i do what i want, not what everyone else wants.